In recent times, Nepal has witnessed a disturbing rise in cases of rape and sexual abuse. Even more alarming is the reality that many of these crimes are committed not by strangers, but by individuals the victims trust the most family members, relatives, and close acquaintances. This harsh truth forces us to confront an uncomfortable question: how safe are girls, even in the places they should feel most secure?

For years, society has claimed to protect girls as the “honor of the house.” However, this notion often translates into control rather than genuine safety. Restrictions are imposed on girls in the name of protection, yet little is done to address the real threats that exist within homes and close circles. When abuse occurs in such spaces, victims are often silenced by fear, shame, and the crushing weight of social stigma.

This silence does not just suppress victims it protects perpetrators. When society chooses to look away, it indirectly empowers abusers. The betrayal of trust becomes even more painful when the accused are those who hold authority or emotional closeness. The idea that the safest spaces are, in reality, unsafe reveals a deep failure in our social structure.

At a time when the nation is experiencing political change, there is a growing expectation that new leadership will address these long ignored issues. A new government has come into power, carrying with it the trust and hopes of the people. Many believe this moment could mark a turning point where hidden cases come to light, victims find the courage to speak and justice is delivered without delay.

However, the problem goes beyond the actions of criminals. A greater issue lies in our collective silence. When society blames victims, hides crimes to protect family reputations, or chooses not to speak out, it becomes complicit. Silence becomes a form of support for injustice.

People now demand more than promises they want real, visible change. The government’s responsibility is clear: create a safe and supportive environment for victims, ensure a swift and effective justice system and enforce strict accountability for perpetrators. A true commitment to change requires a zero tolerance policy against sexual violence, not just in words, but in action.

No nation can claim progress while its girls live in fear. Development loses its meaning when safety and dignity are not guaranteed. This is the moment to break the silence, to stand with victims and to demand justice.

So the question remains: Unsafe girls, silent society, who is guilty?

If we continue to remain silent, we share that guilt But if we raise our voices, this could be the beginning of a safer, more just society